1. Cynthia Rubin
    Cynthia Rubin January 20, 2014 at 7:46 pm | | Reply

    Thanks so much for this.

  2. Nynke Passi
    Nynke Passi January 20, 2014 at 11:16 pm | | Reply

    Very moving, insightful interview with dear friend Tim. Such an important subject to talk about, and one that truly is not talked about enough. I love the idea of being curious about death, even while also afraid. The interview charts all these moments, throughout life, of coming close to death–taking a peek at it, in one way or another. The image of all being in the same boat is powerful, simple, and true. I loved hearing these stories. Thank you so much for sharing vulnerably and personally about such an intimate subject. I think Wake Up to Dying is a vital project.

  3. ralph gallagher
    ralph gallagher January 20, 2014 at 11:39 pm | | Reply

    Thanks Tutttle that was beautiful, most beauutiful

  4. Elizabeth Cline
    Elizabeth Cline January 21, 2014 at 10:58 am | | Reply

    A beautiful and profound discussion about death and love. Thank you Tim!

  5. Charles Lyonhart
    Charles Lyonhart January 21, 2014 at 2:43 pm | | Reply

    You really got it down and you know I can relate. I loved hearing you speak and it was excellent story telling about a topic that most people shun away from.

  6. Tamar Cole
    Tamar Cole January 21, 2014 at 4:01 pm | | Reply

    This is such an important subject to explore. Thank you so much for doing these incredible interviews And thank you, Tim Kasten, for your wisdom, honesty, courage and insight into the “boat” we are all on. How true, how well said, and how crucial it is for people to understand.

  7. Rani Arbo
    Rani Arbo January 22, 2014 at 12:52 pm | | Reply

    What a riveting and clear-eyed conversation full of compassion and truth. You help us all imagine how to begin or continue it it with ourselves and the ones we love. A huge gift. Thank you.

  8. Kathy Leo
    Kathy Leo January 22, 2014 at 6:51 pm | | Reply

    Thanks you for this tender, honest and open-hearted conversation. We learn so much about our own life choices through other’s stories. Thank you to Tim for allowing us into your intimate stories.

  9. Marilyn kolber
    Marilyn kolber January 27, 2014 at 7:18 am | | Reply

    A profound, tender interview with a generous view into the experience of a brave man. Truly special.

  10. Jennifer Harman
    Jennifer Harman February 1, 2014 at 10:15 pm | | Reply

    I want to talk about Ray Burke and how well he took care of our roads. More importantly I would like to discuss why his successors have fallen so short. I grew up in Vermont knowing that I could get where I needed going-Thank-you Ray Burke! Now-a-days I assume roads are closed with less than 2″–Not the way Vermonters should live! I miss Ray Burke.

  11. Annie
    Annie February 17, 2014 at 7:26 am | | Reply

    “Talk radio” supreme; providing inspiration and insight to dig more deeply (or even to just get the shovel out to begin to dig) into our own pasts, presents, and futures. Also, the sound quality and editing (along with Tim’s lovely cadence and eloquence) made this show a treat for the ear. I am now waiting to hear about Tim’s mother’s passing. Thank you….and keep the shows coming!

  12. Sheileagh
    Sheileagh July 13, 2014 at 3:02 pm | | Reply

    I really appreciated Tim’s insights and wisdom around his family’s deaths and his own illness. My family also experienced the same end of life issues for our mother nearly two years ago. We too learned how hospital staff obstructed, through ignorance and negligence, my mother from having a good death. Extracting her from the modern medicine model and wanting her to die at home, as she wished, proved to be an ever shifting and unsolvable Rubik’s cube due to the lack of resources. It was immensely frustrating – it still burns very hot today. The last thing my Mom taught me was how not to die; something I’m considering on a daily basis since being diagnosed with ovarian cancer last October. Tim’s commentary on the fruitlessness of a medical staff person spoon feeding his dying father touched upon a very similar observation I made when visiting my mother in the hospital. She had already signed two DNR/MOLST forms, discontinued her medications eight days prior, and had stopped eating three days earlier – I glared into the eyes of the nurse as my mother soon after vomited, painfully, into the kidney basin I held for her. Institutionalized madness! I’m very grateful to be living in VT where I have choices about how to die and not obliged to follow through a Frankensteinian health model. Please keep this conversation going!

  13. M
    M November 28, 2017 at 11:29 am | | Reply


  14. Nadine Connors
    Nadine Connors February 23, 2022 at 10:20 am | | Reply

    I have kept this on my computer because Tim Kasten and I grew up together. He has been gone for a while and I cherish hearing his voice.
    Unfortunately this is my work computer
    I would like to download this to my home computer
    I have signed up for Hub and spoke on my podcasts on my phone
    can you send me a mp3 of this or tell me how to download so I can remove it from my work computer?
    Nadine Connors

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